The One Shift That Saved My Marriage

Published 8 days ago • 1 min read

MANIFEST WITH HYPNOSIS

MATUS HANIDZIAR

Another argument with my wife.

Me again sitting alone on the couch

Again replaying the fight in my head.

Why did this keep happening? Why couldn’t we figure it out?

My quest for answers led me to a simple but powerful truth:

Most relationship struggles start with a lack of self-awareness.

I realized I didn’t truly know my own needs or how to express them.

I was hoping my wife could read my mind, while she was navigating her own struggles.

This dynamic, driven by our opposing attachment styles, was the root of our miscommunication.

I decided to take action.

I dove into self-discovery:

personality tests,
books on attachment theory,
and the 5 Love Languages.

What I learned reshaped my perspective.

For example, I discovered my anxious tendencies and learned how they clashed with her avoidant style.

Instead of trying to fix her, I started with myself.

I communicated what I needed with clarity and without blame.

I also respected her needs for space and time.

Slowly, our connection deepened.

Relationships thrive when you stop guessing and start understanding—both yourself and your partner.

If this resonates, watch my new video, The One Shift That Saved My Marriage (And Could Save Yours Too).

It’s packed with insights on how self-awareness can transform your relationships.

Matus Hanidziar

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